Private love can be compared to a casual friendship because both relationships lack commitment and intensity. Another reason why people desire to become close to someone is for self-improvement; it’s not always about having sex. Sometimes it’s self-serving. Everyone loves to be cherished and taken care of. A sense of one’s femininity or masculinity is desired by both sexes. We frequently allow ourselves to fall in love because we have strong feelings or desires for someone.
Passionate love is a result of the feelings that lead to sexual attraction, physical desire, and romance. Something about a person you like draws your attention and makes you want to be around them. Commitment is total love. Those who desire to commit to someone want a stable connection. People who only seek commitment may not be interested in simple friendships or sexual arousal. Young adults today are less engaged in relationships and more interested in goods. The origin of objectification is consumption. Obligations are less appealing to people when culture becomes more consumerist. Some adolescent persons are more focused on impressing those who don’t matter to them. As a result, everything must be consumed, even personal relationships. Although every person has different reasons for falling in love, Sternberg’s theory of love may be applied to a wide range of situations. It’s not always necessary to provide a rational justification for why people fall in love.